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Show Up Where They Are, Not Just Where You Are
He mentioned he'd be in the same city. They had coffee for three hours.
The Story
In Dubai, an investor learned that a principal he had been cultivating a relationship with would be spending part of the summer in a city the investor was already planning to visit. He mentioned it in passing, without pressure, in a brief message before Eid. The principal suggested coffee. What followed was the most candid conversation of their working relationship, no office, no agenda, no formality between them.
Cultural Principle
Meeting a Gulf counterpart in their summer context, outside the structure of the Gulf market, offers a register of exchange that formal settings rarely permit. The relaxed geography changes what is possible in a conversation.
Takeaway
If travel plans place you near a counterpart's summer location, mention it simply and let them respond. The willingness to show up somewhere that is theirs, on their terms, is its own gesture of regard.
Warmly,
Taqua